Relationships between parents/children
The relationship between parents and children can be a crucial aspect of child development. Children who feel loved by their parents are more likely not to fail than those who do. A love relationship can be primary or secondary and be based on the parents' love or the love of a caretaker. While the main cause of child maltreatment is the loss of love from the primary caregiver, there are other factors that can affect the relationship. Divorce, for example, can cause a disruption in the child's ability to function, as well as cultural norms and practices within the family that can adversely affect the child’s growth.
Different parenting styles
The impact of parenting styles on children's growth can be varied. These parenting styles are often influenced either by parents' past experiences or their own religious beliefs. People who choose a certain parenting style will have children who display positive behavior, self-esteem and self-competence. You should consider other factors when choosing a parenting style.
Time-outs
Time-outs have become a very popular way to deal with children's bad behavior. Arthur Staats created time-outs as a discipline technique that involves removing a child from the activity for a specified period. While time-outs can be very effective at reducing bad behavior, they can also cause a child to feel more isolated and angry. These are the reasons parents need to follow some guidelines when using this technique.
Persuasion
Child rearing practices include the use of persuasion. While it is important for parents to set limits, children will be more open to accepting suggestions from their parents if they feel that the behavior is beneficial to them. Positive and consistent parental efforts should be made to influence children's behavior.
Reason
Children are raised in many different ways and there are many child rearing practices. Norway, for instance, allows children to start daycare state-sponsored at the age 1. Japan expects children to be independent from birth, but not completely, as Japanese society values the role of adults in their care.
Relaxed body language
Relaxed body language in child rearing can prove very useful when working with children. It will help you communicate with children about acceptable and unacceptable behaviours. You can also use it to help you see how your actions could affect other people. Your child will respond more positively if you can express your emotions and follow your instructions.
FAQ
How can I stop my son or daughter from bullying others.
Bullying is a serious problem for many young people.
Some children bully each other because they feel anxious. Others bully because they enjoy seeing someone else suffer.
Most bullies aren't aware of the damage they cause. They believe that they're doing nothing wrong.
So it's important to find ways to prevent bullying in schools.
Here are some tips:
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Teach students about different forms of bullying. Explain that there are positive and negative forms of bullying.
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Talk to your child concerning bullying. Tell your child that you don’t like it when he/she picks on other people.
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Help your child develop empathy. Encourage your child or teenager to imagine himself or herself in another person's shoes.
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You must teach your child how to advocate for yourself and others.
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Be consistent. You must follow through when you tell your child not touch another student.
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Be attentive to your child at school.
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Tell teachers if your child is being bullied.
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Be gentle with your child. Instead, use kind and gentle language.
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Set clear boundaries. Your child must know exactly where he or her stand with you.
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Stand up for your child and show your support.
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All family members should work together. Parents and siblings can help each other keep the peace.
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Use punishments and rewards wisely. For good grades or chores, rewards work well. Punishments work well for misbehavior.
Is permissive parental behavior good?
Parents who are too permissive can still be good, but they need to realize that children learn from both bad and good experiences. They have to be willing and able to take responsibility when their children are not disciplined properly.
They should also be prepared to take action if their child misbehaves.
It is the best thing you as a parent can do for your child. You must always make sure that you are consistent.
These rules will help you raise happy, well-adjusted children who are respectful of others and themselves.
What is a positive example?
Positive parenting teaches children how to behave by setting high standards for them and expecting them to live up to those expectations. It involves loving them unconditionally and supporting them through their struggles.
Positive parenting encourages children to choose the best for themselves and not what's easiest or most convenient. This helps children grow into independent adults who are able to decide what they want.
Positive parenting means having fun with your children and encouraging them to find the joy in their lives.
Children develop trust when their parents show concern for them and treat them as people. As a result, they are less likely to get into trouble and become happier and healthier.
Statistics
- Dr. Phil says, “Children should be able to predict with absolute certainty, what will happen as a result of their behavior, 100% of the time.” (parenting.kars4kids.org)
- Students from authoritative families were likelier to say that their parents–not their peers–would influence their decisions (Bednar and Fisher 2003). (parentingscience.com)
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How To
What can I do to discipline my child?
There are many ways of disciplining a child but remember that the goal is to get them to understand why they did something wrong so that they don't repeat it.
Here are some suggestions.
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Your child should explain to you why they think they did something wrong.
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Give them a limit on how long they can clean your room. Let's say that you have 5 minutes to clean the room. You'll need to stay after school if you don't finish your room clean by the timer goes off.
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Praise good behavior.
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Bad behavior should not be punished
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Be sure to inform your child about the consequences for any misbehavior.
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You should reward and not punish. Rewards include praise, stickers, toys, etc.
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Set clear expectations for your child.
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Be consistent.
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Avoid yelling or shouting.
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Pay your fines.
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Talk calmly with your child and be firm.
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Maintain control over your emotions
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Don't shout or scream.
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Show love.
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Do not hit your child.
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Take time to explain yourself.
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Remember that children are only small once in a lifetime.
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Keep your word.
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Listen to the feelings of your child.
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Understand that children are not stupid.
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Have patience.
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Do not let your child see that you are angry.
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Keep calm.
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Encourage your child to express his/her feelings.